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Allen or Linda Anderson, firstname.lastname@example.org,
New York Times Bestselling Book Asks: "If Faced with a Crisis, Would You Give Your Wife a Memo to Keep Her from Crying?"
Minnesota author and ex-cop highlights the differences between how men and
women handle communication about a crisis in his new memoir – an Amazon.com Bestseller
Hot 100 New Release.
A Minnesota best-selling author thought he was in finehealth with a full life ahead until he received the shocking news that although
only in his mid-fifties, he had two potentially fatal health issues – a brain
aneurysm, which could rupture at any time, and a blood clot aimed at his heart.
The spiritual aspects of his story evoke awe. Anderson’s memories of police
work provide pulse-pounding moments. But the differences between how he and his
wife reacted to and communicated about his health crisis are funny and
familiar. His avoidance tactics, as expressed in the male complaint: “I never
know what to do when she cries,” included planning brain surgery when his wife
was out of town and writing a fact-filled memo to keep her from getting too
emotional. “A Dog Named Leaf: The Hero from Heaven Who Saved My Life” by Allen
Anderson (Lyons Press, November 2012) includes a strange and mysterious but
wonderful true example of a healing that involved Anderson, his emotionally
scarred rescued dog Leaf, and the in-sickness-and-in-health journey of a
twenty-five year marriage. For more information and to read an excerpt, go to
www.adognamedleaf.com. Visit the book’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ADOGNAMEDLEAF.
“I admit to having a meltdown after the neurosurgeon called to tell me I needed brain
surgery. My father had a stroke while I was in the Air Force and it left him an
angry, debilitated, and helpless man. That’s the last thing I ever wanted for
myself or my wife Linda. After I pulled myself back together, I asked, ‘What
would Spock do?’ To get a handle on the situation and avoid causing unnecessary
pain, I created a fact sheet with flow charts and positive outcomes, so Linda
wouldn’t freak out. When I presented it, she screeched, ‘You have a brain
aneurysm, you need brain surgery, and you gave me a memo?’ I learned that if
you are faced with your imminent demise, never give your wife a memo about it.
Instead, hold hands, listen, and let her cry. YOU probably did.”
much has been written about Mars and Venus’s styles of communication, using
broad brushes to describe how men and women use verbal and nonverbal language
to express ideas and emotions is unhelpful. Just about everyone agrees that
differences in male and female styles don’t apply to all men and women. In
Anderson’s story his attempts to communicate about the dire situation while
keeping his wife’s emotions in check came from a sincere desire to spare her
from pain. He used reason, logic, and paper in anticipation of how their lives
could be destroyed without successful medical intervention when he would have
had better results from emotions, compassion, and touching.
Cooper, New York Times best-selling author of “Homer’s Odyssey” calls
Anderson’s book, “A remarkable story. It will reaffirm your faith in the unique
and mutually healing bond that can form between humans and animals.”
there was Anderson’s startling and unexpected communication with his dog Leaf,
who showed he understood what was needed in ways that hint at a new frontier
for human-animal interaction. Leaf responded to Anderson’s painful
conversations with his wife in ways that no one would expect from a dog. Yet
psychologist Stanley Coren, University of British Columbia, claims some dogs
have a vocabulary of up to 250 words they understand. Goldsmiths College did a
study of empathy in dogs and found that canine companions consistently attempt
to comfort people in distress.
Allen Anderson and “A Dog Named Leaf”
Allen Anderson is an inspirational speaker and coauthor of a series of books
about the benefits of having pets as family members. In 1996 he and his wife
Linda Anderson cofounded the Angel Animals Network to share stories that convey
uplifting messages about relationships between people and animals. In 2007
Allen and Linda’s book about animal rescue won the American Society of
Journalists and Authors Outstanding Book Award. In 2004 Allen and Linda each
received State of Minnesota Certificate of Commendation awards in recognition
of their contributions as authors. In 2011 they were named Partners and Friends
of American Humane Association in recognition that their mission and efforts
are in alignment with the organization’s work. In addition to being an author,
Allen is a photographer and a writing instructor at the Loft Literary Center.
He and Linda live in Minnesota with their cat and bird and, of course, his
A Dog Named Leaf ($16.95,
ISBN-10: 0762781654, ISBN-13: 978-0762781652), a 224-page paperback published
by Lyons Press, an imprint of Rowman & Littlefield Publishing, is available at major online bookretailers, in bookstores, and at lyonspress.com.
Company Contact Information
Angel Animals Network
Allen or Linda Anderson
POB 16682, Minneapolis, MN 55416
The American Society of Journalist and Authors (ASJA) has selected A DOG NAMED LEAF
by Minnesota authors Allen Anderson with Linda Anderson (Lyons Press)
as one of the winners of the prestigious 2013 ASJA Awards in the Lifestyle/Memoir category.